Cuffed, Tied, and Satisfied
For those who have fantasized about being taken by their partner, playing with handcuffs, ropes, and paddles, or wickedly wielding power over their lover, this is the book for them. Award-winning sexologist Jaiya acts as mistress in this transformational handbook, leading readers on a shame-free journey to sexual empowerment with a plan for safely playing on the edge, setting boundaries, and communicating with a partner about one's deepest, darkest, untapped desires.
BANISH BORING SEX AND UNLEASH ORGASMIC ECSTASY WITH POWER, RESTRAINT, AND SENSATION PLAY!
Are you ready to expand your sexual boundaries? If you’ve ever fantasized about being taken by your man, dreamed of playing with handcuffs, ropes, and paddles, or been turned on by the thought of wickedly wielding power over your lover, you’ve found the right book!
Award-winning Sexologist and author Jaiya will be your Mistress in this fun-to-read handbook that will transform your sex life. CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED leads the kink novice and pro alike on a shame-free personal journey to sexual empowerment, including your full plan for safely playing on the edge, setting boundaries, and communicating with your partner about your deepest, darkest, untapped desires.
Jaiya will teach you how to make your sexual fantasies a safe reality through:
• SENSORY PLAY - Blindfolded and tied to the bed; you’re helpless as every inch of your skin is awakened with your lover’s hot breath and a delicious feather…
• POWER ROLES - You’ve drawn up your own sexy contract detailing every moment of how you want your lover to take you to full surrender; he looks into your eyes and pulls you to your knees…
• IMPACT AND TOYS - Just the sound of your wicked crop sends your lover into ecstasy; the anticipation has you both on the brink of extraordinary pleasure…
• ROLE PLAYING - Standing naked in front of your lover, they admire your black thigh-high heels. You’ve empowered your inner Dominatrix, and you’re ready to take control…
CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED is all you need to bring kink out of the dungeon and into your bedroom.
Somatic sexologist Jaiya presents a beginner's guide to kink, particularly "the realms of power dynamics" in BDSM. She begins with a psychology lesson on the nature of vulnerability, the catharsis that draws many to submission, and the natural endorphins released when dominating. To help readers find their "erotic wiring" and better understand their sexual needs, she provides a checklist of activities to fill out with a partner. For the dominant, Jaiya provides useful tips on establishing demeanor, creating parameters for a session and instructions for games. Submissives receive a lesson on "subspace," a trance-like state of "total ecstasy." She details a vast number of specific exercises and scenarios, from breath play to spanking to using restraints. Each action is broken down into steps with a list of required accessories and a safety rating. Safety, both physical and psychological, is discussed at length and Jaiya encourages the ready use of safe words and maps out the body's "no-impact" and "no-bind" zones. Through interspersed journal entries, she also shares her own experiences with her partner. Jaiya's friendly and accessible introduction to kink is perfect for those seeking to spice up their sex life, though more experienced readers may find it rudimentary. (June)
"Jaiya's friendly and accessible introduction to kink is perfect for those seeking to spice up their sex life." --Publisher's Weekly